Instinctive Life Blog

20 12, 2016

Moms – Are You Staying at Home Because of Guilt?

2016-12-20T10:43:29+00:00 December 20th, 2016|

It’s so typical of us as moms to stay home due to fear that we won’t be able to give enough at home AND at a job, but what if you could find another way to give value that actually enhanced your relationships at home? It’s possible!

We are just like a car that gets better […]

13 12, 2016

3 Steps to Effective Hiring

2017-02-15T14:09:30+00:00 December 13th, 2016|

What are the 3 best steps to take before hiring ANYONE?

1) Make an exhaustive list of EVERYTHING that must be done in your business.

2) Ask yourself how much you enjoy doing each task (It’s your business, why shouldn’t you enjoy it??) Rank each item on a scale of 0-5 (5 being most fulfilling).

3) Give this […]

5 12, 2016

How to Avoid Burnout

2016-12-05T17:59:18+00:00 December 5th, 2016|

I have dear friends who struggle with this every day! Is there a solution, without quitting your job and living like a bum on a beach somewhere? YES…although you may still want to consider the bum life, try this first…
1) Every job has aspects you love and aspects you hate. Identify which activities are a […]

29 11, 2016

Does Your Job Pay Well but Leave You Uninspired?

2016-11-29T20:30:58+00:00 November 29th, 2016|


Are you tired of having to drag yourself to work each Monday morning? Wouldn’t you like to LOVE your job so much that you enjoy getting out of bed on a Monday or after a vacation?

Me too! So I did – and you can too!

Our Higher Power built us with a unique skill set AND […]

22 11, 2016

3 Ways to Determine if College is Right for Your Son or Daughter

2016-11-22T12:23:57+00:00 November 22nd, 2016|

My son decided after his sophomore year to quit college. Yipes! In my day and age, that spelled doom and gloom for his future, but not anymore!

Nowadays, kids have SO many more options, and college is not the necessary step to a successful future that it once was.

That begs the question, “Is college right for […]

15 11, 2016

Are You in College for the Right Reasons?

2016-11-15T13:58:17+00:00 November 15th, 2016|

My son just dealt with this question after 2 years and $40,000!! I believe he came up with the right conclusion…he left school!

But that is’t the right answer for everyone. The trick to answering this question is knowing what the right career is for you.

If you know the career you want, you can answer these […]

8 11, 2016

What Career Step Are You Avoiding Because of Fear?

2017-02-15T14:09:30+00:00 November 8th, 2016|

What a great question!

Typically we approach fear with a fight or flight mentality, but Joseph Conrad says to, “Face it, always face it. That’s the way to get through it!”

FDR says, “The only thing you have to fear is fear itself.” WHY?

Because fear freezes you, and as I summarize in this video blog, a frozen […]

1 11, 2016

Would You Like to Stay in Your Current Career…Just Make it Better?

2017-02-15T14:09:30+00:00 November 1st, 2016|

Did you know that 50% of my current clients who come to me expecting to change their jobs through my process end up staying right where they are?

“Why is that?” you ask. Because…

  1. They discover that what was wrong at their company was not their job, but how they approached their job.
    1. Many people use […]
25 10, 2016

Does Your Life Fit You…or Someone Else?

2016-10-25T18:44:36+00:00 October 25th, 2016|

As kids we are taught to reach for that ever-elusive carrot of adults’ approval, oftentimes stretching us beyond our natural selves. This habit extends into adulthood, where we do the same for the approval of our spouse or boss or friends.
At some point, we find that we have become foreigners in our own lives and […]